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Tributes to Naana
Dominic Degraft Aidoo Jnr (Nephew) - 4.5.15
I weep each day, I weep for all those who called you Mum, Aunty and Naana. Each passing day brings me fresh memories. Memories of your kindness, love and laughter. I recall the time we spent together in Nigeria, Ghana and UK. Pictures of those precious moments are now priceless. My bond with my Aunty started on her wedding day when I was elected as the lead page boy. That bond grew stronger each day until her death.
When I was a child Aunty brought me gifts from her travels, as a teenager she dined with me at some of the finest Asian restaurant in town. As an adult, Aunty still kept a watchful eye over me. You literally text me on a daily basis. Aunty Naana was ever present in my home!
My Aunty was pretty extraordinaire, stylish, talented and undoubtedly very gifted. She was eloquent and spoke her mind. Her sense of She was eloquent and spoke her mind. Her sense of humor was legendary. Even though she was the youngest of eight siblings, she somehow managed to trace the family ancestry to the tribe of Sokoto in Nigeria and claimed heritage as a Nigerian to my surprise.
I will remember you as Aunty Naana the ELEGANT, LOVING, CARING AND KIND friend
I believe in Eternal Life in Christ Jesus. I was excited when I was informed that in your final days she rededicated herself to Jesus Christ. I believe you are in heaven. I live in this Hope knowing that each day on earth is a precious gift, yet rejoicing in the hope of a reunion with you someday.
Having joined the saints and become part of that great cloud of witness who have gone before us in glory, I sense you cheering me on, encouraging me to run with diligence the race before me.
The boys already miss Grand Ma Naana, Dora thinks it is fun when you are around. I say you are an Aunty par excellence. Your life is truly remarkable. You will not be forgotten. I love you.
Yooku
Folake Fajemirokun - 5.5.15
When I think of Aunty Naana, I remember her laugh, her amazing cooking, the many colours of her hair (which was everything but black), the constant bickering with Vanessa and teasing Vanessa and I about this our friendship. It has been very difficult seeing my best friend deal with you gone, but Aunty Naana, she has your strength and with that I know she will be okay. 60 doesn't feel like old enough, but quality over quantity and you really lived life and touched a lot of people and I know you won't want any of us to be sad about you gone. So I am going to continue to remember you as the vibrant Aunty Naana, full of energy and constantly on the move and I will continue to be there for Vanessa, so that you can continue to laugh at 'this our friendship'.
Nieces, Nephews, Spouses and Great Nieces and Nephews - 10.5.15
Mrs Florence Naana Esi De Souza was affectionately known to all her nieces, nephews and their spouses as “Aunty Naana”. She was the youngest of 8 siblings and it showed in her in the way she related to us being more of a big sister even though we knew perfectly well she was our Aunty. Aunty Naana was fun loving and playful, had a great sense of humour that was legendary, spoke her mind and was the life and sole of any family gathering. She had no favourites as she treated us all the same in her unique way. She could make you laugh with her antics that your rib sides would be hurting from the laughter and was good at giving nick names like “Pink Panther” and “Fu Man Choo” they know who they are. Aunty Naana was a care free soul, vivacious, full of flare, stylish, eloquent and had pizazz. Her relationship with the 3rd generation of Great Nieces and Nephews was a joy to watch, playing computer games, reading to them , talking fashion, texting and just having fun and as with us the laughter never stopped for them either. Aunty Naana “we will miss you, God be with you till we meet again” From your Nieces, Nephews, Spouses, Great Nieces and Nephews.
Frank, Gyaaba, Aku, Kpakpo and Akwei Bulley (Niece and family) - 10.5.15
Aunty Naana & Great Aunty Naana Our God is an awesome God; He made you in his image and handpicked us all, to go through this unique life journey together as a family. Celebrating the good and sharing the difficult times together. You were a witty person, vibrant personality and passionate about your chosen field of work. The lasting memory I have of you and can’t explain why is when you came to see my sister and I at school with your husband, our Uncle Magnus and at the time pregnant with Paul. You had this beautiful smile on your face, you looked so radiant. You subsequently gave us 3 more wonderful cousins, adding to the ever growing family. Your children meant a lot to you! You embraced Frank as a son in law and have had many a joyful conversations, especially at the dinner table which was full of laughter and of cause enjoying those kebabs in the evenings. Aku, Kpakpo and Akwei will always remember their Great Aunty Naana, the meaningful conversations and games you played with them in the evenings giving them your undivided attention. Aku will miss the texting back and forth, and they will always have you imprinted in their memory. Aunty Naana you have been loved by your family and will be greatly missed .God has taken you back, rest peacefully.
Theodore, Maame Esi, Padi and David (Niece and family) - 10.5.15
Aunty Naana was lovely, kind hearted, very chatty and friendly person who wanted to know what was going on in our lives. She had many stories to share and kept us talking until the wee hours of the morning when we spent time with her in Ghana. Aunty loved her nieces and nephews dearly and this extended to her great nephews as well. She had pets names for them' kukulunchous kukulanchas' was her favourite name. Aunty you will be dearly missed.
Ama-Dede and Papa Nii - 10.5.15
My brother and I would like to say "Aunty Naana was a lovely lady who was always sweet and attentive to her nieces and nephews. She will be missed"
Best wishes Ama-Dede and Papa Nii
Paapah Adjoa and Eliot (Nephew and family) - 10.5.15
Though we didn't get to spend much time together, you thought of me, Adjoa and Elliot from a distance. Though we may not be together in this life - A life that is full of ripples and strife, I know someday we will meet again in the blessed hope of Christ.
Nana Aba and Richard Morrison (Niece and family) - 10.5.15
Aunty Naana will be remembered for her eloquence, her generosity that knew no bounds, her good sense of humour and above all her loving and caring nature.
Baaba (Niece) - 10.5.15
Aunty Naana was an Aunt extraordinaire, she was one of a kind, as the eldest niece I guess it’s my privilege that I have known her the longest and you have been a constant presence in my life. My abiding memory was when we celebrated your 60th birthday last year with about fifty members of the family old and young, when the candles were lit on your cakes and we were singing “Happy Birthday to you” you stood still soaking it all in and your face said it all with the big smile that never left your lips.
I will miss you Aunty very much.
Pamela Newman-Okai (Cousin) - 10.5.15
I met Naana for the first time when i went on holidays at Takoradi She was six years old . My first thought was what a pretty girl Her beauty never faded even as she grew up When Naana came to London I was then married and living in Edgware –Middlesex UK Naana and dear Maame Esi snr and Uncle Kwesi Owusu-Ankomah used to spend weekends with me and my Family –They just adored Naana Naana was so honest and blunt and sometimes after she has spoken, I really ask myself did I really heard what she said !!! She was lovely and kind May the Good Lord be with her forever .
Good night Naana.
Your cousin
Michelle L. Okocha - 13.5.15
We weren't very close, but from the times we were together I remember your lively disposition and that hearty laugh!
Rest in total peace Naana.
Margaret Mba - 14.5.15
My dear sister, rest in peace. I'm glad I came to takoradi to see you. We went on to talk about yr 25th birthday in London, how we were so thin then, long before any of us will come to Nigeria, you reminded me of the road trip we took with the kids from Lagos to Ghana, and you kept making us laugh. Didn't know it wll be our last. Will always cherish our times together, may you rest wth the Lord. Your children wll be our children as usual. RIP.
Chloe, Genevieve & Chidi Osanife - 15.5.15
To an aunt, who knew the true meaning of fun and laughter.
Your house was always a home of fun, laughter and joy we’d never want to leave. You coloured our Easter weekends with your annual eater egg hunts we’d be in and out of all the compounds searching endlessly for the goodies you’d hidden. We’d paint the walls of Shonibare estate so colourfully you exposed us to creativity, unity, and brought so many friendships together through this. Macaroni cheese was always on the menu this became a major attraction for us arriving in time for lunch. We also remember you for your pink house, but of course everything about you was so full of colour, brightness and zeal.
The greatest gift you brought us was the gift of family; Paul, Annabel, Vanessa and Fernando our extended family. Our bond is matchless, rest well in knowing they can always count on our endless love and support.
When we learnt of your passing we shed tears but then we’ve heard the angels say “your work on earth is done.” Will we never see you again? But we heard the angels say “the spirit never dies.” You’ve left for the stars above but we’ve heard the angels say “she left you with her love.” You’ve earned your wings aunty Naana. Please do rest well as we wish you eternal peace.
Temilola Young - 17.5.15
Forever in Our Hearts.
Aunty Naana, heaven has truly gained an angel. It seems like just yesterday I was begging to come and have lunch in the pink house with you promising me sweets if I ate all of my lunch. You are gone too soon but you'll remain with us through Paul, Anabelle, Vanessa and Fernando. The family misses you dearly.
Ifeyinwa Anazonwu-Akerele - 18.5.15
Naana!! na wa.. oo!!!
It is still quite a shock to me that you have gone??!! I remember vividly how we both started off together in marriage in a fairly new environment. By new l mean you being Ghanaian in a foreign country, and me being lbo married to a Yoruba.We had no choice but to weather the rocky ride together since our husbands were twins from different mothers!!It sure wasn't a smooth ride but God was very good to us. He gave us beautiful children as follows: Paul, Rowena, Annabel, Roberto, Vanessa and Fernando!! They were inseparable you were their mother I was their mother.In fact Roberto practically moved in with you when Rowena had to leave for school in England.
I always admired your courageous, independent, forthright, and no nonsense personality.YOU LOVED LIFE ! YOU TOUCHED LIVES! AND YOU LIVED LIFE TO THE FULLEST!!
I am certain the Angels are having a blast with you up there !!
REST IN PERFECT PEACE MY DEAREST NAANA.
(Ps: be rest assured your children are in very safe hands with all their new adopted mothers)
I love you!
Alexander Allen - 18.5.15
I only had the privilege of knowing Aunty Naana for a short time but even during that brief period I was able to witness her caring and charming personality. Aunty Naana had a wonderful laugh which was usually the first to begin and the last to finish. She handled her struggle with illness with a quiet strength and dignity which often made it easy to forget the battle Aunty Naana was fighting within. Your impact on those around you is clear by the sheer numbers of those that miss and mourn you. You were taken too soon but you will always be remembered.
A poem by Henry van Dyke:
Time is too slow for those who wait
Too swift for those who fear
Too long for those who grieve
Too short for those who rejoice
But for those who love, time is eternity.
Love Alex
Adwoa Edun - 19.5.15
Naana was unique. Forthright in her opinions, energetic and bubbly, she always threw herself wholeheartedly into whatever she was involved with. Underneath the confident exterior she was also rather sensitive and very kind. She brought all these traits to bear when she gave me and my family such full support during the final burial ceremonies for my mother-in-law. I was overwhelmed by the scale of arrangements we had to make, and Naana cheerfully and efficiently took charge of the large Ghanaian contingent, chaperoning them, explaining what to do and where to be, and being a wonderful bridge, when I was so distracted. It was then that I discovered we were related through my Aunty Melee Newman, now of blessed memory. An aunty who had been an important part of my life, from childhood and youth, it was when she came to Mummy's funeral that I found out she was Naana's cousin. So typical of us Ghanaians that it would be at a funeral we should discover ourselves! When she published her biography she did me the honour of asking me to review it at the launch. Naana is the only person for whom I have ever gone out and bought a hat, a pink one of course, to wear on her birthday. The last few years Naana withdrew somewhat, while she battled the awful disease that finally took her, but she can never be forgotten. My memories of her are all of her vibrant, positive energy; of her kindness.... and of pink!
Rest in peace Naana. Da yie.
Adwoa Edun
Helen Hunt - 20.5.15
Naana, you were always there for me, especially during my most trying and difficult times, you were always there to lend a helping hand. Thank you for the support and encouragement you gave to me and the children of Bambi Creche especially during the annual concerts we held. This picture sums you up Naana, you sparkled! I shall forever cherish your genuine love, sincerity, kindness and support over the years.
Sleep well in perfect peace Naana, I will never forget you and your beautiful warm smile
Rowena Adeyemi - 19.5.15
Aunty Naana,
Everytime I think of you I get slightly confused because l don't really understand or believe that you have really gone. Every memory I have of you is full of life and happiness. Even the way you handled the low times in life you did it with your head high and always laughing. Aunty Naana was always the life and soul of the party. I will always remember when I first left for boarding school in England, and we used to get woken up so early. It reminded me of how happy I always was to come home and be woken up by you ringing the bell of your bright white bike and yelling at the top of your voice to my mom " Ife wake up!!
You would call out my name " Good Morning Rowei" then my brother's "potato good morning" and demand we all got up and listen to what ever interesting topic you wanted to talk about. How your could be so awake and lively at 6 in the morning was beyond me but I geuss that was just another thing that made you you. Your love for life and children is a true inspiration to me, and I will never forget you for that. I will always be a big sister to Mammabelle and Vannessa and l will do my best to protect Paul and Popo with all my might. We love you so very much Aunty and we know you are in a better place now resting but still keeping an eye on us all even laughing at us sometimes when we do something stupid or silly.
So much love Rowena
Tobi Saka- 21.5.15
We did not spend much time together and although I had only just met you in 2014, I have known of you since 1996 as you were on the Board of Trustees of my high school (Atlantic Hall). Some of the things I heard about you from a reliable source regarding your time in Atlantic Hall were: energetic, fashionable, stylish and confident. I even heard from another source that you were among those responsible for starting the Atlantic Hall Prom.
I met you for the first time in England for your 60th birthday in July 2014 and I remember seeing a picture of you from almost 30 years ago and thought to myself this looks exactly like Vanessa. We had invigorating conversations about Atlantic Hall, Lagos and life in general and I thought to myself – that’s where Annabel and Vanessa get their passion from.
When you came to Lagos in November 2014 for Mamme-Efua’s 40th birthday we had dinner together and I noticed a trend, time spent with Vanessa’s mom guarantees an engaging and exciting conversation. You had a steak dinner that night and we all hung out pass midnight. Even after Vanessa fell asleep we kept “gisting”. I am sad that we will not get a chance to grow our relationship but I take comfort in the fact that you are in a much better place free from this sinful world and with our Lord and Savior. I look forward to getting to know you better through your beautiful children.
To one of Nigeria’s Finest!!
Mrs. Folake Phillips- 25.5.15
Hi Naana,
You came into my life around the time we were all getting married; and, you remained in my life for over twenty years as one of my closest girl friends.
You were different from most of us because of your forthrightness – your ability to call a spade a spade without worrying how it came out sounding. Your happiness in yourself was contagious. You never allowed anything or anyone to drag you down or dampen your spirits.
You were a wonderful cook and was always happy to entertain your friends. I cannot recall how many times I would come over with Ololade (my daughter) to eat Efan kuko (a Calabar dish). Those were happy days, just the two of us with our kids, enjoying each other’s company.
You were a mother, a wife and a friend; and, in each category you excelled. You were fiercely protective and caring of your children and their interests, often at your own expense. You were a wife who did not complain or speak out against your husband Magnus, even after the end of your marriage and in spite of the challenges that confronted you: I salute you for that. You were a true and supportive friend that was always fun to be around.
I salute you Naana de Souza. You came into this life and left an indelible footprint that cannot be forgotten. You have many friends and admirers who shall miss you greatly. I miss you.
We shall meet again. Adieu my friend. The Lord will watch over the children you left behind and we your friends shall be there for them too.
Love you
Clara Ogunbanjo- 26.5.15
I don't know where to start nor do I know how to say what I want to say without crying. There's so much I want to say but I ll try nd make it as short as possible. I met Naana after she and Magnus got married. Nan ( as I called her ) was much more than a friend. She became my best friend and my big sister. Hers was the first voice I heard most Sundays, Wednesdays and Saturdays. Most of the time she would have eaten breakfast before I came down and would be reading the dailies. Or dozing on the couch. She came Sundays after church for breakfast of glazed doughnuts, croissants nd hot milky sweet tea ( or like I use to say " sugar milk with tea") And afterwards late lunch at the Lagos motor boat club. Wednesdays after midweek service. Breakfast was Ghana beans with gari ( from Obalende ) and hot milky sweet tea and epang nkuquo for lunch. Saturdays after her radio show for breakfast - full English breakfast and sometimes lunch. At the beginning I found it odd but got used to seeing her first thing in the morning and we all missed her when she travelled or didn't come around.
Nan loved food and she was a great cook. Her curry pastes and curries were the best. Her garden egg soup and fufu was to die for. I remember her coming to see me in London after I had my first child and she was pregnant with her 2nd - Annabel and she invited me to her baby shower lunch at San Lorenzo in London. She and Magnus loved entertaining and Toks and I were always invited. I remember the day the "Nan/ Clara magic happened". She walked into my house unannounced upset because of some wahala in Maryland estate. She wanted someone to talk to and she came to me even though we weren't that close then. From that day we were inseparable. She was my confidant and my mentor. She brought me out of my shell and protected me. No one could say anything bad about me to her. She was like a mother hen where I was concerned. We talked till late most nights especially on Friday nights (boys night) when we ll talk till 3 am in the morning sometimes and I ll quickly say " night Toks' back" and dive into bed. Together we had many 1sts. She took me to my 1st beauty pageant show where we heckled the contestants. And after that I loved to go with her.
Our road trip to Ghana with about 18 children - ours and friends' children. She made us laugh all the way there and through out our stay in Ghana. Her first trip to Abuja. We'll wake up early (she woke up early everyday) and we'll go for long walks, talking. Most important 1st was when she had her last child Fernando. There was no doctor on duty nd the midwife had to take delivery and I assisted. Fernando was delivered into my hands. Mine were the first hands that held him. It was awesome. When she regain her breath the first thing she said was " sweetheart ( dats what she called me, never Clara ) you've seen my duhdah I will be there when you have your next baby so I too will see yours. I wasn't even pregnant then. She didn't get a chance because my baby when I did get pregnant was born early by C section. She said I cheated her. Fernando is my godson.
I couldn't get angry with Nan because she didn't let me. She'll give me 2 hours max to cool off and then call and say "hey my friend stop this nonsense " " oyen flefle' and I' say it back to her and that was the end. Never dwelling on what the problem was. And we'll talk as if nothing happened. I love the babe. She was too much. She didn't have a bone of bad in her. She said it as it was and always the truth. She was the most confident person I know. She was content and didn't envy anyone. She was a classy lady. Always well dressed. She made everything come to life. She threw herself whole heartedly into all she did, especially her children. She was full of stories and her humor was contagious and always made me laugh. She was always the life of the party. She didn't let things get her down. She was a very optimistic person. I remember when her bag was snatched as she came out a party at Lagos tennis club. Everyone she was with "scattered " including the men. Nan went after them and got her bag back. I was rolling on the floor when she told me. She was so funny. Only Nan could do it.
She didn't like people who took advantage of others. Nan loved people. No one was too small to talk to. She was kind and people saw her genuineness and gravitated towards her. She could sweet talk her way into the queen of England's bedroom. When she moved into " Pink House" I"ll go there and we"ll chill in her room after eating ourselves silly or on the rooftop. She was a clean freak and everything had to be clean and orderly. Pink house was my refuge when I was down. Nan loved Nigeria. I remember for about a year after she left for Ghana she kept her Nigerian sim active. She loved Lagos especially. She was a big part of the Lagos social scene. She introduced me to people ( big big girls) that I would never have met. Always introducing me as her friend. She is the only one I know who honored every invite sent to her and even went to funerals just because the person was a member of her church even if she didn't know the person. And she was always on time. Nan left Lagos when she became ill and we stayed in touch. The last time I saw her , my whole household was upside down with excitement because she was coming. We hugged like we'll never let go. Fernando reminded me of that day recently. I didn't know he was watching us. Of course epang nkuquo was for lunch. My children were hers nd mine hers. I remember I'll report my son Tobi to her and when she came to the house she'll call him and say " hey my friend leave my friend alone".
Paul, Annabel, Vanessa and Fernando your mother was a fantastic woman, larger than life. You were the center of her universe. The best that ever happened to her and she was so proud of you all. Paul you are her father and husband rolled into one. Her Annabella was her" madam too know" who she was so proud of. Vanessa - Nessa Pucha Pucha - her spitting image. Fernando - her Nando - her baby. Her eyes shone when she talked about any one of you. Your mother was very beautiful inside and outside. I know no one can ever replace her in your lives but I promise to be there for you all the time. You are my children. Mag, she was in love with you till the end and she was very proud of you. You are a wonderful father and she sang your praises all the time. I remember calling her on her 60th birthday. She said " sweetheart pray that God give me 10 more years". That's all she wanted. Nan passed on my wedding anniversary. I guess her way of never letting me forget her. As if I can ever. I am very proud to be called her friend. There"s this saying " God takes the good ones young". Very true. She was a STAR!!! I love and miss Nan SHINE ON Your sister Clara
Tobi Ogunbanjo- 26.5.15
I miss you Aunty! I used to look forward to your white car coming into the gate just cause of the happiness and fun you always brought along. Everyone in the compound looked forward to your arrival, everyone in the compound still loves you. You were always fair, to everybody. You treated me like your son. You are amazing! I've witnessed you turn the bad to good and there are times where I'm so thankful for my Aunty Naana. I'm sad now Aunty, but I'm so happy to have had the chance to know you. Your children are my siblings, and I thank you for them. Aunty, the donuts are still here every Sunday just like your presence is.
Forever in our hearts, my second mother. I love you
'Biola Phillipa- 26.5.15
Hi Nan,
When we speak to dear ones no longer with us in the clay, we use the familiar to help us conjure up all that we have left of them, our memories. I recall that with us it was Hi Nan. You were Nan and you were dear.
What was your day like? It was full! You always had such a lust for life; a passion to explore, experience and express life. Not how long but how fulsomely. You lived; you were never going to settle for just existing.
Paul, Annabel, Vanessa, Fernando and Magnus are forever favoured for having been enveloped by your love; and, I am more for having been a small part of your life’s journey.
Bye Nan
Roberto Akerele- 27.5.15
My dear Aunty Naana, I cannot believe that you are gone. You where like a mother to my sister and I. I will always remember you as a cheerful, fun-loving lady who was always so full of life. You had the most beautiful, infectious smile that could make everyone around you happy. There was never a dull moment with you. Whether good or bad times you where always cheerful. My favourite childhood memories are of Shonibare estate, the easter egg hunt and party you organised and your Pink Panther house. I remember as children my sister and I used to visit your Pink house often to see Paul, Annabelle, Vanessa and Fernando and I remember never wanting to leave. We would always have so much fun that we would beg our parents to let us stay. I always had the most fun at your house, and to top it off, your food was amazing. I can never forget your macaroni and cheese. I don't like cheese but somehow that was my favourite meal.
Your impact to our childhood was unique. Your smile, positive attitude and love for everyone taught us what really mattered in life. You will be missed greatly Aunty Naana. You may have departed this life, but I know that your legacy lives on. It lives on in the hearts of us all reminding us to be strong, to be happy and to love one another at all times. Your children are my sisters and brothers and I promise to love and protect them always. Goodbye for now Aunty Naana, and may your soul rest in perfect peace.
Nike Makinde- 28.5.15
I remember the day I first met Naana. It was in 1979 and I had gone for lunch with a friend and in the restaurant I saw a cousin of mine having lunch with one of the most beautiful ladies I had ever seen. We all had lunch together that day and I remember that I kept thinking to myself that Naana was very exciting and fun to be with.In a short space of time from our first meeting we became the best of friends. We were together literally every day because we enjoyed each other's company so much.I met the late Chief Olu Aboderin who was chairman of Punch Newspapers where Naana worked. I met Chief Sam Amuka and the cartoonist and artist Kenny Adamson. With Naana life was such fun.She introduced me to so many interesting people in London like the famous English artist John Hoyland and the Sierra Leonian celebrity business man,the late Terence Terry. I met a lot of her London model girlfriends who were so glamorous. We would go out for lunch and dinner with so many friends ,having so much fun.Naana was always fun.Even staying up late at night in her flat in Punch compound to just jist was fun.My mother grew to love Naana like a daughter and Naana reciprocated that love.So much so that at Naana's traditional wedding to Magnus she asked my mother to stand in at the ceremony as her mother while Chief Olu Aboderin stood in for her as her father as both of her parents had passed on by the time Naana was only 21 years old.There are so many stories to tell of the young ,beautiful and vibrant Naana Newman de-Souza.But since space will not permit me to do so I will just finish by saying a few things to the children and Magnus. To my darling God son Paul and to Annabel and Vanessa,your mother was so proud of all of you.As I am sure you know ,we her friends loved her and she loved us.we will never forget her and we thank God that her legacy will live on in all of you.Dearest Magnus ,may God continue to bless you and I thank you for all you have been to Naana and to your children.You are indeed a good man. With tears in my eyes I say farewell to my friend Naana Newman de-Souza.
Much love,
Nike Makinde
Mrs Yetunde Abraham- 29.5.15
A tribute to my dear friend and sister,
Naana I will never forget you, you were such a gracious and charming woman. I remember how I would visit you with Ify and we would sit down and talk and laugh and shared so many intimate girl things. I remember how lovely your nails always looked. I remember your laughter, in fact I can hear you now. Your face would light up when I would say something outrageous and you would tumble over in stitches. Oh Naana! I will really miss you, but I am assured that you are now resting in Peace with The Lord and you are happy. Goodnight my dear and what a blessing to have known you.
Daniel Owusu-Ankoma (Nephew)- 1.6.15
As a young man, I often felt disconnected from my family. Although my immediate family consisting of my Father, Mother and Sister were always there, I yearned to know about my roots. Being a boy of West African origin, growing up in the UK in the 1980s and 1990s, could often be tough with the occasional racism both intentional and accidental, constantly reminding me that '...I wasn't really from the UK... '
My extended family on both sides is massive, but like many educated families of the West African Diaspora, spread all over the world. Even though I often talked on the phone to a plethora of Uncles and Aunties; both blood relatives and friends of the family, they all seemed so remote- so far away, like they were on a different continent which of course, many of them were!
But not so with Aunty Naana! Her regular visits to the UK to see her older sister (my late mother Esi) and us (my father Kwasi, myself and eventually my sister Rachel) were tangible experiences that helped shaped my understanding of what being African meant. Aunty Naana for a number of years, was the main link back to my roots and family in Ghana.
Even now it is so easy for me to picture her back then. Either in my parents house in Dartford, Kent or in Uncle Magnus and Aunty Naana's Hampstead house in London, the way she stood, the way she talked, the way she laughed: unforgettable. My memory is pretty bad at the best of times but when it comes to memories involving Aunty Naana, it's like they happened yesterday.
As time went by, Aunty Naana relieved my familial loneliness by bringing an additional cousin for me to play with every few years! First Paul, then Annabel, Vanessa and finally Fernando. Her generosity, confidence and sense of adventure lead to us having so many great shared experiences. I know my love of London and fine dining; particularly Chinese dim sum, can be directly attributed to her.
My Mother and Aunty Naana shared a special bond. My mother always seemed so relaxed and happy when she was around. They loved to laugh and gossip together- treating each others children as if they were their own.
So when my mother passed away in 2013, it hit Aunty Naana hard. Even while she was dealing with her own challenges, Aunty Naana came to her funeral and delivered a beautiful tribute, straight from the heart, without preparation, in the forceful, charismatic and intelligent way she always did when speaking to anybody.
Hearing of her death saddened me greatly. She was in regular contact; asking myself and my sister how we were after our mother's death. Aunty Naana was a great woman. A force of nature. Rest In Peace Aunty. We miss you.
Obayemi Fadaka- 3.6.15
She was a treasured mother to me
I knew her through her husband who was my boss and always been there for me in advise and connections with people that matter in my profession. I am already missing her.
Ololade Phillips- 3.6.15
My dear Aunty, heaven just became a more vibrant and happy place. When I think of my Aunty, I remember the joy and laughter she brought to us all in everything thing she did. Besides the delicious Ekpankwukwo and the times Fernando and I would watch TV late at night in her room, my best memory would have to be her 50th birthday at the Sheraton hotel. I remember watching Aunty Naana, my mother and her friends whipping out the old school moves and having the time of their lives. That's the memory I have of my Aunty, always able to radiate joy and happiness everywhere she was. Aunty you are gone but surely never forgotten. Thank you for being a wonderful Aunty to my brothers and I and an even better friend to my mother. Love you Aunty, rest in peace.
Supo & Muni Shonibare- 3.6.15
Adieu Irrepressible Naana
Naana was an irrepressible vibrant, elegant, cultured lady who was always loyal to her Friends & expected & would often demand reciprocal display of affection & loyalty.
She was never hypocritical: you always knew where you stood with her.
Although she had been unwell for sometime, her passing away now still seemed premature. We extend our condolences to her lovely children, Magnus, her siblings & other members of her family.
Protracted illnesses tend to purify the soul. May her soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
Mum De Souza- 4.6.15
Naana, I am very sad you are not here any longer. Sad, because you left us suddenly. When I saw you a few months back, all the time I kept thinking you will be coming back soon. That made me very very sad. Although we were far from each other you always showed love and affection to me whenever you called. I will always have good thoughts of you. You were always kind and a very good mother to your children. You will be missed.
May Almighty God grant your soul eternal rest.
With deepest sympathy and great sorrow.
Mum
Tunde Phillips 4.6.15
Dear Aunty Naana, you are truly missed. Besides my immediate family, you were one of the first i could call an aunt. Your infectious smile was never missing, and the boom of your laughter, i will never forget. So much of my childhood revolves around time spent between our families, from the easter egghunt and painting on the walls of Shonibare to riding my bicycle from G-cappa to see Vanessa and demolish your curry inspired creations The memory of you visiting my mother on your white bike will forever be linked with laughter and happiness. You were a tremendous woman and i will forever cherish the role you played in my life. Rest in peace Aunty
Tayo Phillips- 4.6.15
One like no other, That's what comes to mind when I think about you, Aunty Naana. I am still trying to come to grips with the news of your passing, it's proving harder than I thought. I read all the tributes written, and I can't help but smile. Right now even as I write this I am a little teary eyed because I have all these memories coming back and just think how blessed we all are to have come across such a cheerful, fun-loving lady who was full of life. I am sure many will try to describe your presence but it's something I can't even put into words. You had this infectious smile and laughter that could light up a room, you always made everyone around you happy and always was the life of the party. I'm going to be a little selfish now because I don't want to share all my fond memories of you with everyone, I think this is why it has taken me so long to even write this. Even now I don't want to, because it means I have to accept that you are gone. I just want to say thank you. For blessing us all with your presence, for giving the world 4 great kids, for just being you. Earth has one gentle soul less, and Heaven one angel more. Love you
Dominic Oguh- 5.6.15
She was a blessing and a tool of success... She lived a life of Christ like... mother of virtue. She will be missed by many. RIP madam Naana
Silverbird Group- 5.6.15
So full of life and always ready with a smile or a kind word to anyone she met ,Naana was a close friend of the Murray-Bruce family and was to all intents and purposes part of the larger Silverbird family ,on a personal note, the relationship stretched back thirty years and continued to wax strong culminating in a number of collaborations at Rhythm 93.7 FM and Silverbird TV . Naana had a number of redeeming qualities that stood her out from the crowd ,she bore no grudges and never stood on ceremony ,she was a real person who empathized with any and everyone who had 'life issues' to contend with . We as a family and an organization were sad to hear about her health challenges which never weighed down but instead fired her up to continue to live life to the hilt . The Silverbird Group prays for the repose of her soul and wish her children and extended family God speed at this difficult and trying period . Our memories of Naana will remain fond as she will be missed by the Murray- Bruce clan and anyone who came in contact with her.
Roy Murray Bruce For the Family and Silverbird Group
Ronke Eso- 7.6.15
Celebration of Life
My heartfelt sympathy and love go out to Paul, Annabel, Vanessa and Fernando at a time such as this; for the loss of a mother is a deeply traumatic event in the life of a child. I implore you to take courage in the certainty that prayers are eternal and all her intercessions for you, her very dear children, will surely come to pass. I commiserate with Magnus and commend him for the continued love and support of his family and pray that the gift of wisdom, grace and patience will equip and guide him through the challenging job of parenting in the 21st century. Naana was bold, strong, courageous and loyal, a woman of great passion with a very deep capacity to love. She loved her children with every fibre of her being and built her life around them and their needs. She was a natural giver and she gave of herself 100%, her friendships were for life, and she never gave up on them! For the little corner reserved for me in your “big” heart, I humbly say thank you, and in turn I celebrate Naana the brave one, for, through all the changing scenes of her life, gave the very best she had, and always, did the best she could. Enter into the rest of our Heavenly Father.
Atlantic Hall:Educational Trust Council- 7.6.15
On behalf of the Board of Trustees, Board of Governors, staff and students of Atlantic Hall, I write to express our heartfelt sadness at the news of the death of our colleague on the Board for several years, Mrs. Naana De-Souza.
I recall that Mrs. De-Souza, in her capacity as Social Secretary' of the Atlantic Hall Educational Trust Council, contributed imrnensely to the growth and development of our school, Atlantic Hall. Mrs. De Souza was a valuable and highly respected member of our Board.
Those of us who had the honour and pleasure of working closely with her will purely miss her pleasant disposition and hearty laughs.
She was a dear friend whose company we all cherished. Our consolation is the abundant evidence that Mrs. De-Souza lived an eventful life and her legacies of selfless service to humanity live's on.
It is our prayer that the Almighty God grants our 'amiable sister and friend eternal rest and the family the-fortitude. to bear the loss. I admonish you to "give all your worries and cares to God; for He cares about you" - Peter 5:7. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
With all our love and condolences.
Warm Regards,
Chief (Mrs.) M. M. Okunowo
CHAIRMAN
Maame Efua Alabi (Neice) 2.6.15
Auntie, Mother, Grandma, Friend and Mother in law, all in one was who you were to us. Our relationship goes way back. I remember staying with the kids at the hotel whenever you came to Ghana. We just had a great connection. It's not surprising that years after I decided to come for your fiftieth birthday party, July 2004.
There I met my soul mate and husband. You chose well. Richard will be fine. A year later I walked down the aisle and the following year made you a grandma prematurely. You taught me a lot.
We saw each other everyday for 5 years before you left for Ghana. The trips to the mall for bowling, our Sunday Chinese, our long chats, organising birthdays etc. You were my precious stone, my cherished ornament and priceless trinket.
The STAR of my 40th Birthday. You looked so radiant. You made me proud. You loved me and my family. You always said it as it is. Very open and direct to the core.
Dare finally went for his international swimming competition in Germany and was able to bag a bronze medal in butterfly. That's for you. He did not take the news well. Dami is still demanding for jam everyday! Dara's reaction to the news was heartbreaking. Richard shut down.
We shared a lot and I know a lot. All these precious moments have turned into tears of sorrow. But, while my heart grows heavy, grief -stricken and weary I know that with time the dark skies will be clearing as Heavens gates welcome a familiar face! God’s glorious light will forever shine upon you as you rest peacefully. I miss you auntie Naana. I still tear at the sound of your name but, I take solace in knowing that one day we will meet again. I know that you are watching over us from your place up in the clouds.
My heart is still bleeding. With the passing of each night and day, it gets worse.
I can only hope that you see my life and it makes you proud.
By the way Fernando still messages me. I love him more!!!!
Richard Alabi 8.6.15
I met Planet's Most Beautiful (PMB) at Aunty Naana's lovely home in Shonibare Estate in 2004. Couldn't have been at a better place that day.
Aunty Naana ever so jovial made sure everyone felt at home. Great food and drinks flowed. I was and still is eternally grateful to her for inviting me over, especially coupled with the fact that I got blessed with a gorgeous "Handbag" to leave with.
Words can't describe the fear and anxiety that came over me when I heard Aunty Naana wasn't doing so great in Korlebu Hospital. I was desperate to go and see her but she asked me to wait when I called to say I was coming. Reluctantly, I had to. Guess I would never get to see her again to discuss and argue about all the topics and issues life brings forth.
Everyone I know loved Aunty Naana. She was always so much fun. Never a dull moment. An extremely beautiful and gorgeous lady.
Aunty Naana we just want you to know we love you so very much. Dare, Dara, Dami, Maame Efua and I will miss you so so much.
Till we meet again Aunty, please rest peacefully in our Lord's bosom.
Aku Bulley (Great Neice) 8.6.15
Auntie Naana was a really fun and positive person to be around, we always had so much fun. Though we only really saw each other at Christmas, we always made the most of sharing time together. We would usually play snap (cards) with my brothers, watch TV and play plants verses zombies on her laptop. We had our ups and downs where we would fight over watching certain TV shows but that never lasted long, we would then make up and chat about things we enjoyed. I can remember the hot mornings in Ghana, when we would have our breakfast, sit down and talk and the late nights where we would relax together with my brothers and Paddi. I am really going to miss Auntie Naana; she was one of the best Great Aunties a girl could ask for. Aunty had arranged for us to have a day out in London this summer, which I was looking forward to unfortunately this will never happen. I hope she is having a wonderful time in heaven and that she is watching over all of us from above.
Yetunde Ekpe 11.6.15
Smiling Angel
You were a kind, funny and generous soul. Even though we weren't the closest of friends, we shared a lot of laughter whenever we met (strangely even when you were sharing what would ordinarily be considered a sad story!). Your love and pride in your children was total and justifiably so. You bore your struggles with stoicism and shared your joys freely. Your smile lit up the gloom and made bright days even more dazzling. You were a great woman of faith. Heaven has gained an angel and I pray that God comforts your beautiful children,family and friends with great memories. Rest in perfect peace.
Yetunde
Bukky Odushola 18.6.15
Today I decided that I will be taking a short trip to Lagos next week. I was in Lagos a few months ago for a few days and hardly saw any of my friends. This time round, as I was sorting out dates of travel, I thought to myself I need to get contact details of friends that have moved back to Lagos. The first person that came to mind was Vanessa, so I went on to Instagram and sent a messsage asking for contact details. IN MY WORLD: While messaging Vanessa, I already had a vision of how our reunion would be. Talking about my mischievous days in Shonnibare Estate, my Grandma only allowing me to go to your house, Vanessa & I getting dressed at your place to go to 11.45 and Annabel telling us if we looked good.. SO SO MANY.. One thing I thought I was sure of, was that I will ask of you and Vanessa will tell me, you were well and somehow I would have spoken to you next week. IN REALITY: The reply from Vanessa, "Just got back from Ghana. Lost my mum".. Never thought I will read such words from her. Instantly, tears blurred my vision as I tried to comprehend the meaning that Aunty Naana is no longer among us as a physical being. This is painful to hear and the fact I feel this pain has made me realise how much you meant to me. I am also upset that you never had the chance to see me as an adult and we were not able to gossip about what has happened over the past 11 years. Whenever I think of Lagos, you always come to mind. Dearest Paul, Annabel, Vanessa & Fernando: There are really no words I can write that will take away your pain. No matter what, your mother's spirit is in all of you, me and everyone else she touched with her wisdom and kindness. All the seeds of love that she planted in you will continue to grow. Your mother was one of the nicest people I have ever met, she was the epitome of beauty. Great people such as your mother are an inspiration to everyone around them. Your mother will continue to be an inspiration for me and she will forever live on in my memory and thoughts. My first friend in Lagos, My friend, My Vanessa: I can only apologise that we have not kept in close contact, with everything inside me, I wish I was there to be at your side, hold your hand and give you the biggest hug while you were laying her to rest. I was not there then but I am here now, and I will see you when I get to Lagos. Rest in perfect peace Dearest Aunty Naana.
Love, Bukky Odushola & The Odushola Family.
“Unable are the loved to die. For love is immortality.” Emily Dickinson